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When “I Should Be Doing More” Is the Thought Holding You Back
Discover how the thought “I should be doing more” drains your energy and creates burnout, and how to change it using The Model.
Why You Avoid Setting Goals (And How It Keeps You Stuck in ‘Failing Ahead of Time’)
Discover why high-achieving women avoid goal-setting and how to break the cycle of pressure, fear, and self-doubt so you can finally move forward with confidence.
You’re Not Underachieving — You’re Just Believing a Thought That Says You Are
Discover the 5-step DPFAF process that helps women with already full lives move from chaos to calm, taking ownership of their mornings and their mindset.
From Overwhelm to Ownership: How One Client Transformed Her Mornings, and Her Life
Discover the 5-step DPFAF process that helps women with already full lives move from chaos to calm, taking ownership of their mornings and their mindset.
How to Create a Calm Mind — Before Tomorrow Even Begins
Feel like a failure with money? Learn why your money story is rooted in self-worth — and how to break the cycle of shame, panic, and avoidance.
Why Money Problems Aren’t About Money
Feel like a failure with money? Learn why your money story is rooted in self-worth — and how to break the cycle of shame, panic, and avoidance.
When “Protecting Your Child” Becomes a Pattern That Hurts You Both
What if your urge to protect your child is really about avoiding your own discomfort? Discover how to parent with calm, not panic.
“I’m the Asset”: Why Prioritising Yourself Isn’t Selfish — It’s Generational Healing
I put everyone first and make little time for myself.” Sound familiar? Discover how to stop feeling guilty for prioritising yourself — and start feeling alive again.
The Skill of Making Yourself a Priority (Without Guilt)
I put everyone first and make little time for myself.” Sound familiar? Discover how to stop feeling guilty for prioritising yourself — and start feeling alive again.
What Really Happens When We Try to Avoid Feeling Scared
Learn what buffering is, how it keeps you stuck, and simple, powerful ways to start feeling your emotions—so you can stop spiralling and start moving forward with clarity, courage, and self-trust.
How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed: A Simple Reframe That Changes Everything
Feeling overwhelmed by life, work, or expectations? Discover how one small reframe in thinking can change everything. A practical guide for successful, driven women who want clarity, confidence, and calm.
How to Stop Feeling Stuck at Work: The Thought That’s Draining You and What to Do About It
Feeling overwhelmed or drained by your job? Discover the real reason behind it—and how one simple mindset shift can help you regain your energy, clarity, and confidence.
From Burnout to Breakthrough: How Running in Brighton Helped Me Rebuild My Mind
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Discover how running around Brighton helped me overcome anxiety and burnout, one step, one thought, and one mile at a time.
Why It Feels Like No One’s Listening (And What to Do About It)
Feel invisible or unheard? Learn how to shift the thought that no one cares and take confident action, even when it feels like no one is listening.
This Stops With Me: How to Break Free from People-Pleasing and Trust Yourself Again
Learn how to stop people-pleasing, build emotional boundaries, and model deep self-trust for your daughter, and yourself.
How to Stop Self-Criticism and Build Self-Compassion: A Guide to Transformation
Discover how to replace self-criticism with self-compassion using simple mindset shifts. Learn to use The Model for a better self-relationship and increased confidence.